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how to manage stress
Stress management strategy #1: Avoid unnecessary stress

Not all stress can be avoided, and itís not healthy to avoid a situation that needs to be addressed. You may be surprised, however, by the number of stressors in your life that you can eliminate.

* Learn how to say ďnoĒ Ė Know your limits and stick to them. Whether in your personal or professional life, refuse to accept added responsibilities when youíre close to reaching them. Taking on more than you can handle is a surefire recipe for stress.
* Avoid people who stress you out Ė If someone consistently causes stress in your life and you canít turn the relationship around, limit the amount of time you spend with that person or end the relationship entirely.
* Take control of your environment Ė If the evening news makes you anxious, turn the TV off. If trafficís got you tense, take a longer but less-traveled route. If going to the market is an unpleasant chore, do your grocery shopping online.
* Avoid hot-button topics Ė If you get upset over religion or politics, cross them off your conversation list. If you repeatedly argue about the same subject with the same people, stop bringing it up or excuse yourself when itís the topic of discussion.
* Pare down your to-do list Ė Analyze your schedule, responsibilities, and daily tasks. If youíve got too much on your plate, distinguish between the ďshouldsĒ and the ďmusts.Ē Drop tasks that arenít truly necessary to the bottom of the list or eliminate them entirely.

Stress management strategy #2: Alter the situation

If you canít avoid a stressful situation, try to alter it. Figure out what you can do to change things so the problem doesnít present itself in the future. Often, this involves changing the way you communicate and operate in your daily life.

* Express your feelings instead of bottling them up. If something or someone is bothering you, communicate your concerns in an open and respectful way. If you donít voice your feelings, resentment will build and the situation will likely remain the same.
* Be willing to compromise. When you ask someone to change their behavior, be willing to do the same. If you both are willing to bend at least a little, youíll have a good chance of finding a happy middle ground.
* Be more assertive. Donít take a backseat in your own life. Deal with problems head on, doing your best to anticipate and prevent them. If youíve got an exam to study for and your chatty roommate just got home, say up front that you only have five minutes to talk.
* Manage your time better. Poor time management can cause a lot of stress. When youíre stretched too thin and running behind, itís hard to stay calm and focused. But if you plan ahead and make sure you donít overextend yourself, you can alter the amount of stress youíre under.

Stress management strategy #3: Adapt to the stressor

If you canít change the stressor, change yourself. You can adapt to stressful situations and regain your sense of control by changing your expectations and attitude.

* Reframe problems. Try to view stressful situations from a more positive perspective. Rather than fuming about a traffic jam, look at it as an opportunity to pause and regroup, listen to your favorite radio station, or enjoy some alone time.
* Look at the big picture. Take perspective of the stressful situation. Ask yourself how important it will be in the long run. Will it matter in a month? A year? Is it really worth getting upset over? If the answer is no, focus your time and energy elsewhere.
* Adjust your standards. Perfectionism is a major source of avoidable stress. Stop setting yourself up for failure by demanding perfection. Set reasonable standards for yourself and others, and learn to be okay with ďgood enough.Ē
* Focus on the positive. When stress is getting you down, take a moment to reflect on all the things you appreciate in your life, including your own positive qualities and gifts. This simple strategy can help you keep things in perspective.

Adjusting Your Attitude

How you think can have a profound affect on your emotional and physical well-being. Each time you think a negative thought about yourself, your body reacts as if it were in the throes of a tension-filled situation. If you see good things about yourself, you are more likely to feel good; the reverse is also true. Eliminate words such as "always," "never," "should," and "must." These are telltale marks of self-defeating thoughts.

Source: National Victim Assistance Academy, U.S. Department of Justice
Stress management strategy #4: Accept the things you canít change

Some sources of stress are unavoidable. You canít prevent or change stressors such as the death of a loved one, a serious illness, or a national recession. In such cases, the best way to cope with stress is to accept things as they are. Acceptance may be difficult, but in the long run, itís easier than railing against a situation you canít change.

* Donít try to control the uncontrollable. Many things in life are beyond our controló particularly the behavior of other people. Rather than stressing out over them, focus on the things you can control such as the way you choose to react to problems.
* Look for the upside. As the saying goes, ďWhat doesnít kill us makes us stronger.Ē When facing major challenges, try to look at them as opportunities for personal growth. If your own poor choices contributed to a stressful situation, reflect on them and learn from your mistakes.
* Share your feelings. Talk to a trusted friend or make an appointment with a therapist. Expressing what youíre going through can be very cathartic, even if thereís nothing you can do to alter the stressful situation.
* Learn to forgive. Accept the fact that we live in an imperfect world and that people make mistakes. Let go of anger and resentments. Free yourself from negative energy by forgiving and moving on.

Stress management strategy #5: Make time for fun and relaxation

Beyond a take-charge approach and a positive attitude, you can reduce stress in your life by nurturing yourself. If you regularly make time for fun and relaxation, youíll be in a better place to handle lifeís stressors when they inevitably come.
Healthy ways to relax and recharge

* Go for a walk.
* Spend time in nature.
* Call a good friend.
* Sweat out tension with a good workout.
* Write in your journal.
* Take a long bath.
* Light scented candles



* Savor a warm cup of coffee or tea.
* Play with a pet.
* Work in your garden.
* Get a massage.
* Curl up with a good book.
* Listen to music.
* Watch a comedy

Donít get so caught up in the hustle and bustle of life that you forget to take care of your own needs. Nurturing yourself is a necessity, not a luxury.

* Set aside relaxation time. Include rest and relaxation in your daily schedule. Donít allow other obligations to encroach. This is your time to take a break from all responsibilities and recharge your batteries.
* Connect with others. Spend time with positive people who enhance your life. A strong support system will buffer you from the negative effects of stress.
* Do something you enjoy every day. Make time for leisure activities that bring you joy, whether it be stargazing, playing the piano, or working on your bike.
* Keep your sense of humor. This includes the ability to laugh at yourself. The act of laughing helps your body fight stress in a number of ways.

Learn the relaxation responseLearn the relaxation response

You can control your stress levels with relaxation techniques that evoke the bodyís relaxation response, a state of restfulness that is the opposite of the stress response. Regularly practicing these techniques will build your physical and emotional resilience, heal your body, and boost your overall feelings of joy and equanimity.

Read Stress Relief: Relaxation Practices That Reduce Stress

Stress management strategy #6: Adopt a healthy lifestyle

You can increase your resistance to stress by strengthening your physical health.

* Exercise regularly. Physical activity plays a key role in reducing and preventing the effects of stress. Make time for at least 30 minutes of exercise, three times per week. Nothing beats aerobic exercise for releasing pent-up stress and tension.
* Eat a healthy diet. Well-nourished bodies are better prepared to cope with stress, so be mindful of what you eat. Start your day right with breakfast, and keep your energy up and your mind clear with balanced, nutritious meals throughout the day.
* Reduce caffeine and sugar. The temporary "highs" caffeine and sugar provide often end in with a crash in mood and energy. By reducing the amount of coffee, soft drinks, chocolate, and sugar snacks in your diet, youíll feel more relaxed and youíll sleep better.
* Avoid alcohol, cigarettes, and drugs. Self-medicating with alcohol or drugs may provide an easy escape from stress, but the relief is only temporary. Donít avoid or mask the issue at hand; deal with problems head on and with a clear mind.
* Get enough sleep. Adequate sleep fuels your mind, as well as your body. Feeling tired will increase your stress because it may cause you to think irrationally.
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